Stop trying to win the whole market. Redefine âwinningâ on social media as earning trust with a nicheâand turning attention into qualified leads.

Win Your Niche on Social Media (Not the Whole Market)
Most solopreneurs say they âwant to winâ on social media. More followers. More reach. More sales.
But that phrase hides a problem: âwinningâ isnât one thing. A post that âwinsâ for a venture-backed brand (mass reach, broad awareness) can be a terrible trade for a one-person business (time drain, wrong leads, low-margin work). The reality? People donât want to win in the same wayâbecause their circumstances, incentives, and constraints arenât the same.
Seth Godin made a sharp point this week: even in sportsâwhere scores are obviousâeverybody wants to win isnât reliably true once you factor in what people are protecting (their body, their relationships, their energy) and what theyâre optimizing for in that moment. Business is messier than sports. Social media is messier than business.
If youâre building a one-person business in the U.S., âwinningâ on social media usually means something more specific: attracting the right customers consistently without burning out. Thatâs not about competing in the whole market. Itâs about creating outsized value for a narrow group.
âEverybody wants to winâ is the wrong assumption in marketing
Answer first: In social media marketing, assuming everyone is chasing the same definition of success leads to bad strategy, bad metrics, and bad offers.
In a basketball game, you can point to a scoreboard. In a small business, the scoreboard is made up. You choose it.
Hereâs where solopreneurs get tripped up: you start measuring yourself against creators and companies playing a different game.
- A local CPA in Ohio doesnât need 200,000 followers. They need 12 ideal clients per month and a waiting list.
- A fractional CMO doesnât need viral reels. They need three conversations a week with founders who can pay.
- A productized service founder doesnât need âbrand awareness.â They need repeatable lead flow and clear qualification.
So when you say you want to âwin on Instagramâ or âwin on LinkedIn,â ask: what are you actually optimizing for?
A solopreneurâs real competition isnât other businessesâitâs distraction, uncertainty, and the temptation to chase someone elseâs scoreboard.
Redefine winning as a one-person business
For this Small Business Social Media USA series, Iâve found one definition that holds up across industries:
Winning on social media = building trust with a specific audience until buying from you feels obvious.
That definition forces focus. And focus is the only sustainable advantage a solopreneur has.
Why broad-market âwinningâ wrecks solopreneur growth
Answer first: Trying to win the whole market pushes you toward generic content, weak positioning, and low-quality leads.
Broad targeting makes content easier to write, but harder to sell.
When you aim at everyone:
- Your message becomes bland (âI help businesses growâ).
- Your content attracts curiosity, not commitment.
- You get engagement that doesnât convert.
- You start posting more to compensate.
- You burn outâor you quit.
This is why so many small business owners feel like social media âdoesnât work.â It often doesnât work when youâre using it as entertainment production instead of relationship-building with intent.
The hidden cost: wrong followers
Wrong followers are expensive.
They comment, ask questions, and DM⊠then disappear when you mention price. They push you toward beginner-level content. They make you doubt your offer when the issue is simply fit.
If youâre a solopreneur in the U.S. selling a $2,000â$10,000 service, you donât need âmore people.â You need:
- People with the problem right now
- People who can authorize spending
- People who believe the cost of staying stuck is higher than your fee
Thatâs a niche and a momentânot a mass audience.
A better way to âwinâ: pick the right scoreboard
Answer first: Choose 3â5 social media metrics that directly reflect trust-building and qualified lead flow, then ignore the rest.
A colleague once told me their team was âdata-driven,â but all their dashboards were vanity metrics. It looked official. It didnât improve decisions.
For solopreneurs, your scoreboard should be small and actionable. Hereâs one that works across platforms.
The Solopreneur Social Scoreboard (simple, not easy)
Pick one primary platform (LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, or Facebook). Then track:
- Qualified conversations started (weekly)
- Count DMs, replies, and comments from people who match your niche.
- Profile-to-call conversion rate (monthly)
- Of people who visit your profile, how many take the next step (book, apply, email)?
- Content saves/shares per post (weekly average)
- Saves and shares usually signal utilityâthe type of attention that lasts.
- Lead source quality (monthly)
- Tag leads as A (ideal), B (okay), C (wrong). You want more Aâs, fewer Câs.
- Sales cycle time (quarterly)
- If social is working, you should see shorter time from first touch to paid.
Notice whatâs missing: follower count. Reach. Impressions.
Those numbers arenât useless, but theyâre often lagging indicators. If you let them run your strategy, youâll drift toward content that performs instead of content that sells.
Build conditions where âwinningâ becomes likely
Answer first: Systems beat willpowerâespecially for solopreneurs balancing client work, delivery, and marketing alone.
Godinâs point about circumstances matters here: even committed professionals donât show up the same way every day. Solopreneurs feel this intensely. A client emergency, a sick kid, a project running lateâyour content plan collapses.
So donât build a social media strategy that requires perfect discipline. Build one that survives real life.
System #1: The 3-bucket content plan (60 minutes/week)
Create posts in three buckets that match how people buy:
- Proof: case studies, before/after, lessons learned, outcomes, testimonials
- Point of view: what you believe, what you refuse to do, myths youâll challenge
- Process: how you work, what your audit looks like, what you check first, what mistakes you prevent
If you post 3 times a week, thatâs one from each bucket. Itâs repeatable and it keeps your feed from becoming motivational mush.
System #2: One niche, one enemy, one promise
This is positioning in a sentenceâsimple enough to keep you consistent.
- Niche: who you help (be specific)
- Enemy: whatâs keeping them stuck (the thing you argue against)
- Promise: the outcome you reliably produce
Example (service solopreneur):
I help independent financial advisors stop relying on referrals by building a LinkedIn pipeline that generates 6â10 qualified calls a month.
Now your content writes itself: every post either supports the promise, attacks the enemy, or proves you belong in that niche.
System #3: Convert attention with a âmicro-CTAâ
Most solopreneurs either never askâor they ask too hard (âBook a call!â) when trust is still thin.
Use micro-CTAs that fit the stage:
- âComment âchecklistâ and Iâll send it.â
- âIf youâre in [niche] and this is happening, DM me âfixââIâll share what Iâd do first.â
- âWant my template? Reply âtemplateâ.â
Micro-CTAs create conversations, and conversations create leads. Thatâs the win.
People also ask: what if my niche is too small?
Answer first: If your niche canât support your revenue goal, the issue is usually pricing, offer design, or geographyânot niche focus.
A useful rule of thumb for U.S.-based solopreneurs:
- If you sell a $3,000 offer and you want $150,000/year, you need 50 sales/year (about 4â5/month).
- You donât need a million people to do that.
- You need a niche where 4â5 people per month have the problem, the budget, and the urgency.
If that feels tight, you can widen in smart ways:
- Expand adjacent roles (e.g., from âdentistsâ to âdental practice ownersâ)
- Expand adjacent industries with the same problem (e.g., âhigh-ticket local servicesâ)
- Expand offer ladder (a smaller entry offer feeding the core service)
What you shouldnât do is panic and go broad. Broad is where positioning goes to die.
What âwinningâ looks like for solopreneurs in 2026
Answer first: Winning in 2026 is consistency, clarity, and compoundingânot virality.
Platforms are noisier, AI-generated content is everywhere, and attention is more skeptical. Thatâs actually good news for a one-person business, because trust is harder to fake than volume.
A practical 2026 stance I agree with:
- If your content sounds like it could be written for anyone, it wonât convert anyone.
- If your offer isnât obvious from your profile in 10 seconds, youâre losing qualified leads.
- If you canât keep your posting cadence during a busy client week, your system is too fragile.
Your goal isnât to outpost big brands. Your goal is to become the obvious choice for a specific buyer.
Your next step: choose your win, then engineer for it
Pick one platform where your buyers already spend time. Choose a niche you can serve confidently. Then build a scoreboard that rewards the behaviors that create revenue.
If you do that, social media stops feeling like performance art and starts acting like an asset.
Hereâs the question to sit with before you plan next weekâs posts: If you âwonâ on social media this month, what would be measurably different in your businessâcalls booked, proposals sent, or revenue collected?